sylphystia: (♢ i will be waiting for you)
♢ SHARKNADO ♢ ([personal profile] sylphystia) wrote2018-02-01 05:00 am
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It's called the 'Shae Monyurose'.
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This is a catch-all post for contacting Dezel in [community profile] driftfleet. Leave the date and method in your subject line while replying.
stefanged: (that is a fair point)

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[personal profile] stefanged 2017-02-08 04:18 am (UTC)(link)
Hey, Dezel? Do you have a moment?

I know this is a little out of the blue, but I've got a question about your world.
stefanged: (that's rough buddy)

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[personal profile] stefanged 2017-02-08 05:31 am (UTC)(link)
[There's no easy way to ask this, so he'll just be blunt - ]

Does marriage exist in your world? Or like, some sort of sacred covenant between two people who love each other?
stefanged: (that is a fair point)

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[personal profile] stefanged 2017-02-08 06:44 am (UTC)(link)
[Ah, shit.]

Um, I'm working on a talk for the Interfaith Center, on marriage and how that might differ from world to world. [Or well, HE CERTAINLY IS NOW. JUST SO HE'S NOT LYING TO DEZEL'S FACE.] What about uh, courtship rituals? "Dating," or whatever ceremonies lead up to marriage?

I'd ask Sorey, but uh - [Stefan pauses,] I think he's busy.
stefanged: (heartbroken)

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[personal profile] stefanged 2017-02-08 06:55 am (UTC)(link)
[He shivers at the silence - Y'Allah, he hadn't meant to bring up those memories.]

I'm sorry. I swear, I wouldn't ask if this were important.

[Clay officially owes him, BIG TIME.]

I just - I got the feeling that if I asked Sorey what a date was? He'd ask about the fruit.
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[personal profile] stefanged 2017-02-08 07:22 am (UTC)(link)
No, of course not -

[He sighs, more than a little ruefully.]

I'm sorry. I wasn't trying to. Their relationship is theirs, and I know I wouldn't want anyone to ask about mine. It's more - I was wondering if the words were the same?

Where I'm from, courtship rituals go by different names. Like Americans will call it dating, but my native language calls it muaeada.
stefanged: (well okay then)

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[personal profile] stefanged 2017-02-08 07:57 am (UTC)(link)
I see. So it may not be a specific ritual so much as the knowledge and trust between partners.

[He grows quiet, thinking about the true name Sorey had given him. There wasn't romance in that - unconditional familial love, certainly. They were family, and the name bonded them just as the term akhi had.]

Thank you. Seriously, I appreciate you taking the time to talk about this.
stefanged: (that is a fair point)

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[personal profile] stefanged 2017-02-09 07:10 am (UTC)(link)
Understood. I'll... keep that in mind, should I ever ask Sorey and Mikleo about the details.

[For their relationship or for the talk? Stefan doesn't even know at this point.]

You helped a lot, actually. I know this kind of stuff isn't the easiest to talk about, so, uh, thanks again. It really does mean a lot.
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[personal profile] stefanged 2017-02-11 01:58 am (UTC)(link)
[He laughs, teasing a little -] Is that so? Then I guess I'll have to do you a favor and disconnect first.